There are people who have some seriously warped ideas of what kindness, support, loyalty, are. Once you refused to play along with their ideas of these things you are a fake person!
For me, once any individual loses sight of this sequence, things start going horribly wrong. I strongly believe that most of the problems we have in the world come from most of us forgetting that before anything we are human first. Humanity has been replaced by different categorization.
Having an online business worked for me because I am an introvert. I know that maybe I would have even made more progress if I do more networking than I do presently. Bear in mind that I barely do any networking for my business at all.
I hope you have heard loud and clear what she is saying to you. Especially those raising your daughters not to be assertive, killing their self confidence as the only way to get them husbands. This is dangerous.
We have to learn to treat ourselves kindly without feeling guilty. In the midst of all the craziness, not to forget yourself and make sure you treat yourself with kindness too. It is not just other people who need kindness and consideration from you. You need kindness and consideration from yourself too. It is crucial for self-esteem.
Many people work themselves up online commenting and ranting on some fabricated stories. They pass judgement on one-sided stories. Cursing and abusing a person who they have never met based on what someone claimed the person did.
Nje o mo wipe awon eyan kan wa ti won a she aida tan si e, won a waa mareti ki o binu?
Remember that our beliefs are a combination of so many things. So you might be insulting the core of a person when you attack their faith in a very disrespectful manner.
That you are having a rough time does not mean everyone you meet must suffer from it. It is a matured person who will make the effort to maintain their attitude even in the face of great temptations.
I fought hard to get my mindset to this stage. My self-esteem suffered a great deal at one stage of my life. I believed then I was a no good, lazy person. Right from childhood I have never been one of those who can do physical activities very well. I was always told I am lazy. I carried this image of myself around for years.