This is what the world is now. People tiptoeing around each other. People saying Yes, when they really want to say No. people living in fear of what others are going to say about them. People not living their lives exactly the way they want but by the dictates of others. People speak with both sides of their mouths.

It is so amazing that many have used it to build amazing careers. Social media is a huge place, and with that comes a variety of people. There are people you learn a lot from their content. There are people who want to share the intimate details of their lives. There are jerks who love the anonymity of social media and use trolling to bully others. We have seen them all.

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When an intense person is triggered they don’t stop until they get results. Hence, most of them are successful in their chosen career. They dig their teeth into something and won’t let go until that thing gives. It is a trait that has its upsides and downsides.

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Is it really unhealthy not to forgive someone who wronged you? Coming from a very religious background and a society like Nigeria, I am expected to agree and preach the importance of forgiveness. I am going to disappoint a lot of people by saying I do not agree.

It is very important to maintain robust mental health, especially in this trying time of COVID-19. Coping with life responsibilities is not easy, if care is not taken things can get out of hands quite quickly and every aspect of our lives will be affected not just mental health.

Can I just ask, why do you even need to understand what people are doing before you can leave them alone? Why? Do you have that much time left over after dealing with your life that you go about sorting other people’s life?