Remember that our beliefs are a combination of so many things. So you might be insulting the core of a person when you attack their faith in a very disrespectful manner.
This article is not about teaching your sons to cook, clean up after themselves, iron their own clothes, or do more housework. If you are not doing that already I doubt if this post will be of any interest to you.
We have all been given great opportunities here. I hope we view it as such, no matter the circumstances. There has to be a purpose or reason we left our home countries and set up in base in foreign lands. No matter what these reasons are, let us be a good ambassador of where we came from.
Nowadays Mosques and Churches are where we go to show our fashion sense, dance moves, show off who can donate the most amount of money, and oppress other people with our latest acquisitions. All these are contributing to this mental slavery we are talking about.
If you are looking for total submission from another human being like yourself; please, simply go into a toy store and buy yourself a life-size doll to marry instead of a woman. You will save yourself and the unfortunate woman a lot of headaches.
Haaaa! Africans, especially Nigerians we all seem to be talking a lot about mental health and issues surrounding it but I fear that most of us are only paying lip service to this subject.
I just want to lift your spirit up today with this lovely music for your ears and some Yoruba quotes and sayings for your eyes.
So please, join me as I celebrate this great day in my life. We are told to always look forward and never backward. I call bullshit on that. Sometimes to appreciate where you are right now, you have to look back and see where you are coming from.
For me I don’t believe in beating children like animal as discipline. I am also not of the belief of letting them get away with bad behaviour is the answer. You have to find away to give appropriate punishment without damaging them physically and mentally as individuals.
Remember, early diagnosis means early treatment. Early treatment means it may not turn into something big, or worse; not treatable. Talk to someone close to you. Choose someone you are sure will understand and gives you a shoulder to lean on. We all breakdown at one point or another.