Helping others is beneficial to both the giver and the recipient. Our God is not blind, everything we do and the intentions behind it is very clear to God. Those you help may not show appreciation, they may not acknowledge your efforts. But take comforts in those total strangers who do not know you but come out to help and support you. That is God way of rewarding you. ​

Do what makes you really happy. Take time out to just relax. Listen to uplifting music. Dance like no man business. Draw, paint, do puzzles, play board games. Pray. Meditate. Do yoga. All I am saying is do what relaxes you. If you don’t know what you like, what better time to find out than now? Just do something for you.

To really understands how it works you have to be in the same situation or similar situation. There are days that the pain is just too much that I just stay in bed and cry. There are days that the pain is manageable and I get things done. Either way the pain is always present.