0
0
Halloo,
Are you a nice person? I don’t know. But…
Am I a nice person? Hmmmmm… Depends on who is asking.
Some people find me A Dear while some people find me a total bitch, it all depends on who I am dealing with.
Also, some people find me to be really nice at first and later got to see the bitchy side of me. like I said earlier, it all depends on you.
Let me quickly add that some people met me a bitch and later came to see my nice side.
So if you are one of those who define Nice people by behaving badly and expect them to just roll over and just take it, then you will find me to be Not-a-nice-person. I don’t take crap, I really don’t.
-
Organic Irish Seaweed Soap€5.99 -
Ageless Facial Moisturizer€19.99 -
Product on sale
Soothing Moisturiser For Dry Sensitive Skin-800gOriginal price was: €59.99.€49.99Current price is: €49.99. -
4 Handmade Organic Turmeric Soaps€17.99 -
4 Organic Liquorice Anti-aging Soaps€19.99 -
4 AFRICAN BLACK BAR SOAPS€17.99 -
Product on sale
Organic Irish Seaweed Exfoliating SoapsOriginal price was: €24.99.€19.99Current price is: €19.99. -
Organic Liquid African Black Soap€12.99 – €19.99 -
Organic Creamy Coffee Scrub€29.99
I respect you, you respect me. We will have a jolly good time.
Immediately you start acting up and start treating me like I don’t matter, you will see a side of me that I reserve for ass-holes.
The norm these days is to treat people badly and wants them to understand but once the same treatment is done to you it becomes bad.
I don’t go for that at all.
The desire to have many friends is not something I cherish. The fact is dealing with people tire me out easily. I am a loner, but I make effort to be social. My tolerance for nonsense is really limited.
I think it is important for one’s sanity to recognize behaviour that doesn’t agree with who you are as a person. When you do, hanging around those who do these should be avoided.
For me, this is important. I value myself highly, my time is precious, my energy is not to be wasted. My happiness and well-being depend on it.
The aim is quality over quantity. If you crave human interactions a lot, then be selective in those you interact with. Some people have mastered the art of pulling whatever stunts they like and act like it’s nothing.
It’s nothing only if I am happy with it, if I am not happy then it is something.
I don’t believe in surrounding myself with everybody who sings my praises. I show my appreciation and move on if the person is not my kind of person.
I understand some people fear loneliness and that is why they compromise their integrity for acceptance. In the long run, such people will end up worse off than they were before mixing with the wrong crowd.
The tragedy of it all is that those hurting you will continue to do so, thinking you are okay with it because you let them. Why? Because you are a nice person?
I don’t think so.
To be nice, in my book, is to treat everyone you meet with decency until they prove to you that they don’t deserve it.
What do you think? I look forward to hearing your view.
Thanks a lot for reading. Please, your contributions to this post will be appreciated in the comment section below. Help by clicking like, and share with your friends. Also, don’t forget to join other subscribers to receive notifications of new posts by email. I appreciate it.
Stay with me,
Ruka
Stay with me,
Ruka
-
Organic Irish Seaweed Soap€5.99
-
Ageless Facial Moisturizer€19.99
-
Product on saleSoothing Moisturiser For Dry Sensitive Skin-800gOriginal price was: €59.99.€49.99Current price is: €49.99.
-
4 Handmade Organic Turmeric Soaps€17.99
-
4 Organic Liquorice Anti-aging Soaps€19.99
-
4 AFRICAN BLACK BAR SOAPS€17.99
-
Product on saleOrganic Irish Seaweed Exfoliating SoapsOriginal price was: €24.99.€19.99Current price is: €19.99.
-
Organic Liquid African Black Soap€12.99 – €19.99
-
Organic Creamy Coffee Scrub€29.99
-
Product on sale
4 Organic Kojic Acid SoapsOriginal price was: €29.99.€24.99Current price is: €24.99. -
Organic Fluffy Coffee Body Butter€29.99 – €49.99 -
Go raibh maith agat- Thank You Organic Face & Body Soap Gift€17.99 -
TABHAIR AIRE-Mind Yourself Organic Face & Body Soap Gift€14.99 -
AFRICAN RAW SHEA BUTTER -
Virgin Neem Oil€6.99 -
Lavender Soaps Gift Set€14.99 -
Organic Lavender Bar Soap€3.99 -
Organic Aloe Vera Soaps Gift Set€14.99 -
Organic Aloe Vera Soap€3.99 -
Organic Handmade Lemon Bar Soap Gift Set€14.99 -
Fullers Earth Powder€6.99 -
Organic Lemon Bar Soap€3.99 -
Aloe Vera Gel€5.99 – €17.99 -
Emulsifying Wax Beads€7.99 – €12.99 -
Stearic Acid€7.99 -
Citric Acid€4.99 – €19.99 -
Natural Beeswax Beads€9.99 – €16.99 -
Organic Liquid Castile Soap€6.99 – €14.99 -
Product on sale
African Camwood Powder€9.99 – €64.99 -
Cold-Pressed Raw Mango Butter€9.99 – €24.99 -
Product on sale
Organic Raw African Shea Butter€9.99 – €14.99 -
Organic Raw Cocoa Butter€14.99 -
Raw Avocado Butter -
Raw African Black Soap€6.99 -
Organic Multipurpose Manly Butter€6.99 – €14.99 -
Handmade Organic Camwood Oil€12.99 – €19.99
[…] have secretly wished on so many occasions to stop fighting. Honestly, it might be an easier thing to do. And nobody can blame me. I won’t starve, […]
[…] I intend to write about all that matters to me, especially in my quest for a simple, peaceful, and healthy life. […]
[…] is perfect? Definitely not me! I am assuming nobody is perfect […]
[…] you surround yourself with should understand your journey and you should understand theirs. If you have to keep […]
[…] am not the loud and aggressive man-hater the word Feminism is being stereotyped into. Neither do I need to strip naked and posed in the nude to show I am […]
[…] 20s was worse, I chased friends, I was unsure of who I am and tried so hard to be a lot of things and ended up confusing […]
[…] they just keep talking as if nothing happened. If you know someone who does this often, you are accepting bad behaviour. Call this person to order. Refusal to see sense is saying a lot about the value they place on your […]
[…] track of negative experiences is also good. I don’t know how true this is. But if it helps you to a happy life then by all means give it a […]
[…] They will even criticize and blame without knowing how much tears and determination it took for the person standing in front of them channel to be […]
[…] I don’t need any lecture from anybody on this. Whoever make any attempt to do so will meet a very nasty side of me. I don’t go to people telling them what to wear and whatnot. If I have something to say, I say it […]
[…] Social media is not going anywhere, instead, more and more platforms are springing up. So, you better learn how to make it work to your advantage. […]
[…] but my resolution makes it impossible to remain sad for long. I just keep begging God to please be kind to me and ease my burden while I wait to ride the rough time […]
[…] I find is that a lot of people agree or disagree with the statement above without getting that part […]
[…] I don’t need any lecture from anybody on this. Whoever make any attempt to do so will meet a very nasty side of me. I don’t go to people telling them what to wear and whatnot. If I have something to say, I say it […]
[…] Are you a nice person? […]
[…] people are nut-jobs walking around like normal human beings. They are 5-minutes away from being certified. Just because […]
[…] How are you doing? Please let’s talk about gratitude […]